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We Need To Talk About Punishment

June 13, 2018 by Jen Newton

Recently, after working with teachers on shifting our approach from punishing to teaching, a teacher in attendance emailed me saying, “At first, I wasn’t sure I was going to “buy in to it.”But the more I thought about it, the more compelled I felt.” Such a powerful statement and one I’ve thought about since. Let’s talk this through.

Everything we do has consequences. Every decision we make has consequences.

Punishment, however, is not a natural consequence of an action or decision. Punishment is enacted upon us “as retribution for an offense” (Merriam-Webster).

Kids make mistakes. They do things that don’t make sense, that we don’t understand, that we can’t explain. There are consequences for those mistakes. If you forget your lunch, you eat whatever the cafeteria gives you. That is a natural consequence for forgetting your lunch. A punishment for forgetting your lunch would be a teacher taking away recess or imposing detention on you in addition to the natural consequence of a fruit cup and carrot sticks for lunch. Is that necessary? Does it teach?

The thing we’re selling – that the above mentioned teacher was unsure about buying, was the belief that, as teachers, we must teach. Teach the behaviors we want to see. Teach them again. Reteach. Reinforce.

Punishment doesn’t teach.

I have a tendency to drive too fast. Rarely, I get speeding tickets. It stings for a bit. I pay the fine (punishment) but it does not have a lasting effect on my behavior. I still speed. I just hope I don’t get caught.

Our learners approach our punishments similarly. Okay, think of the last kid from whom you took five minutes of recess. Was it a one-time consequence? Did the behavior you were modifying disappear? Probably not. Generally, kids who miss minutes of recess, miss those minutes of recess frequently. Which is all the evidence we need that the punishment is not changing the behavior.

Maybe we are not intending for it to change the behavior? Maybe we just want to show the learner who is boss.

Either way, the single most important factor in any teaching/learning dyad is the relationship between the teacher and the learner. Kids do not learn from people they do not like or people whom they perceive do not like them. We must like kids! (I know you’re rolling your eyes at me right now but this is a critical characteristic of strong, persistent educators!). Tell kids the things they do that you like! Ask them questions about themselves and listen to their answers! Be intentional about this. Make note of the learners you’re most likely to miss and plan your connections with those students. Document your connections each day to make your patterns visible and give yourself some insight into where you may need to put more effort. Not every learner comes to us naturally so make it a priority to identify those on the fringes. Build your community from the outside in.

As the teacher, you get to decide your role in your classroom. You can be the police officer, the warden, the guide, the zookeeper, or the facilitator. You can catch kids making mistakes, breaking rules, being noncompliant or you can gain their cooperation through intentional relationship building, empathy, and understanding.

How do you build community in your classroom? What challenges do you face in gaining the cooperation of your learners and how we can help you solve them?

Jen Newton

Jen Newton, PhD is an assistant professor in early childhood/early childhood special education (isn’t that a lot of words for what should be one field??). I talk a lot and have strong opinions – or so I am told.

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When Social Media & Professionalism Mash Up

March 5, 2018 by Jen Newton

Scrolling through social media, as I often mindlessly do, I am repeatedly reminded of the powerful educators with whom I am in community. It is not my community. It is a community in which I am a learning, growing, contributing member. These educators inspire me, motivate me, encourage me, and remind me of the change we can be in the world. This community is fiercely inclusive and we challenge ourselves to better understand what that means in the “real world” — a world that is fiercely exclusive. We know how hard we have to work to meaningfully and intentionally include each child who struggles to meet adult expectations and each adult with whom we disagree. But we actively try. We try to make each other better today than we were yesterday, we call each other out when it’s necessary, and we celebrate the smallest victories because we know this work is so hard.

This is the community I choose. The community I grow. The community I champion.

So when, during that mindless social media scrolling, I see teachers complaining about the challenges of their job, the antics of a particular learner that day, or the ridiculousness of some new accountability measure, I am disheartened. Not because I can’t relate to the need to vent, or because I don’t understand just how hard it is, or because I can’t take a joke. But because when teachers mock kids or diminish kids on social media, I wonder how they make that same child feel in their classroom. And I wonder how the kid’s loved ones would feel if they saw their child’s bad day or bad moment posted for all the teacher’s friends, family, and followers to laugh, shame, tsk tsk, or sympathize.

I think about how I would react if I saw my own children referred to on their teachers’ social media.

Actual posts:

improvement for the day: student pees on the bathroom floor instead of in my lap #itsthelittlethings

Well, buddy, I wouldn’t give you the death stare if you were doing what I told you to do. #teacherproblems

One day I’m going to slip and tell a parent their kid is the reason I drink so much.

My sped babies loved it too! (PSA: Sped is the past tense verb of speed; sped is NOT an adjective that describes a person. And children in elementary school are not babies. Our language reflects our values.)

These are the things you say to your partner, to your best friend, to your cat. I definitely get it. I have very stressful, difficult days, too. But these are not the things you put out into the cyber. If you have a social media profile to showcase your work, it should highlight your ability to see students in their full complexity and to honor their humanity, illustrate the dynamic and complex environments of education, elevate the knowledge and skills the best teachers possess.

Part of my responsibility to the field is to support future teachers in preparing their social media world for their professional life. That means removing pictures of beer pong and spring break. It may even mean setting up new “adult” accounts. It always means many serious conversations about never ever posting about children they interact with professionally. The children you teach are not your children, despite your love and commitment to them. You do not have the right to post about them. Their faces, their bathroom issues, their annoying habits. Not. For. Social. Media. You are a teacher. It’s an awesome responsibility. A position of power. One of great influence, the potential to build a child up or tear that same child to shreds. Use your powers for good.

As we build teachingisintellectual’s profile on social media and within the education community, we remain steadfast in our commitment to the integrity of learners. Every learner has value, all behavior is communicating a child’s feelings or needs, and all educators are adults in these spaces. Let’s lift learners up, see and celebrate their strengths, and promote education as a profession.

How have your social media habits changed since you became a teacher? How do you use social media to promote your work and your profession? Have you had any really positive or really negative experiences from using social media professionally that you can share?

Jen Newton

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Things I Know

January 15, 2018January 17, 2018 by Mira Williams

Children learn through experience. It is our duty, as educators, to enhance and strengthen children’s opportunities to explore the world, while also modeling effective communication and positive relationships.
Children are always listening, be cautious and kind with your words and actions. Model respect, kindness, and love. Words matter.
Every child learns differently, feels differently, lives differently, and communicates differently. Acknowledge these differences WITHOUT shaming. Embrace these differences, learn from them, and teach acceptance.
Children develop on a continuum and at different rates. Instead of comparing children to each other, we must take time to understand and know children as individuals. We should then tailor instruction and develop authentic assessment that meets each child’s specific needs.
Children can sense judgement. Examining your own biases and beliefs is the first step in making intentional decisions to create judgement-free interactions with children and their families. You can Do THIS. Be brave. Reflect. Evolve.
No child wakes up with the intention of ruining an adult’s day. Behavior is a form of communication that MUST BE TAUGHT!
Lean in, listen, and figure out what your child/student is trying to communicate.
Take the time to teach and model behavior just as you would take the time to teach a child to read. Remember modeling is key.
Children DO see color and it is OK. Instead of encouraging them not to see color, encourage them to have open and inclusive conversations that lead to understanding, acceptance, and appreciation of the differences they notice.

What do you know? Your turn, tell me!

Mira Williams

Mira Cole Williams, PhD is an assistant professor in inclusive early childhood education and exceptional education. That means I prepare future educators to go out into this world and doing AMAZING things…I always tell my students…small actions can ignite large change, it starts with YOU today!

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